Random Thought 4/23/11

I was on the phone with my best friend, laughing & giggling about what a day she had yesterday. Then like a ton of bricks it hit me. My sister can't laugh & giggle on the phone with her best friend anymore. I just got so sad. Then I thought "Well, she's my best friend & I'm here with her! ". The rest of my time in NY will be dedicated to being the bestest friend I can be to my lil sister.

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Celibacy no more...

So I had sex. Twice. The first time was pretty good. I did get mines a couple times, but he didn't.. Oh well for him. Anyhow, it wasn't as good as I wanted it to be since it wasn't with the person I wanted it to be with. The second time was okay.. Nothing to brag about. I won't be having sex again for a while because not having awesome, great sex is so not worth it.

Someone once told me I had a awesome "triple threat" while stroking me. I asked what's that? His response "That warm, tight, moist vagina". Oh. Other women don't have that?!

I have an ex that was so amazed by my vagina that he even said it was weird. This fool said it felt like he was finger fuckin some warm yogurt. I was offended at first but then he said "its warm & sticky" and that he liked it in comparison to his past girlfriends. He described their vags as "Warm & dry holes". Eek!!

My question is do some women not have wet juice boxes for a reason (medical, hygiene issues, etc) and how/why do men cope with it being that way?
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I recently realized that if the man won't change on his own, that's just who he is. Either you deal or you don't. And I have chosen to not deal with a certain guy. My mother thinks he'll change when he's ready, I highly doubt it. 6yrs came & gone, he has not once showed an ounce of difference. I feel stupid for waiting around (even though we were off & on the whole time) so long.

End of story, lesson learned.
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Update on the Bday plans.

My bestie C hit me up about drinks & bar hopping next Wednesday.

Sex is 100% out of the window for that night & possibly weekend.

And no one else has hit me up to do something that weekend..

5 more days to go!!!!
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Honesty is the best!!

In all my relationships, whether friendship, sexual, etc; all I ask of the other person is to be honest with me. That let's me know from the jump if you're trustworthy.

In all of the sexual relationships I've had, being 100 about your status is a must. Yeah we're going to be protected but I don't play with fire either way. Even with bf/gf relationships, just be upfront about everything. If you have a gf or some chick whose just some side booty, let me know. Let me have that choice to either be with you or not.

I don't see how some people can lie about the littlest things to the major stuff. If you tell the truth in the beginning, the rest should be a breeze. So think about the 'white lies' you may tell your girl/guy & if it was even worth it. More than likely it wasn't.

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Too Deep For The Intro - J. Cole

I wish I could just let these women in abusive relationships hear this.. Not even the whole song, just from 0:40 - 0:56..

Another quick update on the young lady whose bf abused her..... They are getting married the end of April if I saw correctly on Facebook.

Birthday Plans

With my 25th birthday now 12 days away I need to set up some plans.. I already got my ticket to NYC for the following week but the week of I have 0 plans..

I want to have dinner with my friends but my day falls on a Wednesday.
I want to have sex.. Good sex.. (Probably won't happen)
I want to go out somewhere & just go crazy (drinking & dancing, basically)

I guess I need to hit some people up to see if they wanna chill with the birthday girl..