Dating: 50/50 or not!
In my last "relationship" dude believed everything should be 50/50. I'm cool with that but don't say it and never come up with your half. Now I was suckered into pulling his half quiet often but once I tried to do the same, all hell broke loose. He never saw it my way and now, if I tallied up how many meals and trips to the gas station; dude would owe me hella cash! So should dating (meals, movies, etc) be 50/50?! That's a good HELLZ NO! You want to date me, come out of your pocket. I got the tip!
Dating a chick with kids....
I really don't see why dudes date chicks with kids or a kid. Yes I understand you like kids, but why be with someone who has to be tied to that kid all the time. Yall will never have free time cause Lil Tay Tay know that you trying to get at his mama or they just always in your face. I'll see guys hit on chicks with kids and wonder: what is the appeal? I need real answers.. Is it because you know she's giving it up?? There are plenty of single, 0 child having women out there who are giving it up like it was Free Coochie Day.. (Not saying I'm one of them, but I'm just saying).
A man & his kids
Sorry bruh, you're already not for me. That's nice you have children, that's a blessing but when and if I decide to have kids, I want it to be with my husband.. I don't want to play Step mom to your kids knowing that (at least 85% of the time) their mother is telling them to not like me. So ain't gonna happen over here kid.
The unattractive women & attractive man
When I see this unsightly pair, I can only think: WHAT DOES SHE HAVE THAT I DON'T? I know people say it's not all about looks but I think that's some bullshit. You have to be attracted to something the first time you see them.. Even if it's just a phat ass.. Like seriously, I see this all the time and think "I'm a decent looking chick.. Why not someone like me instead of that beast he's with?" Me & Ms. HB had a discussion via Twitter about this. I can't remember exactly what was said but I know my goofy ass said this for sure: She must be sucking the meat off his dick something serious for him to be with her. But forreal: how?! why?!
Marriage: On The Rocks or Shaken?
When things get rough and you both are willing to work it out, I think you should just to say that you did. And if you do and it doesn't work out, let that be the end of it knowing you tried your best. Now if it does work out, you have to move along like nothing happened to cause a rough patch in your relationship. You can't dwell on the past to get to the future.
My relationship status
I'm as single as a bird left behind during migration. I was "dating" this guy for the past couple of years and I ended it because we were going no where. He was too comfortable having me wrapped around his finger so I bounced. After family & friends telling me to really think about our so called relationship, I told him I can't do this anymore. I can't keep giving, giving, giving, giving, and giving you all you need and more and never seeing what the outcome is going to be. After a couple months of not interacting with him, he told me that he still misses me. It felt good to hear but it didn't feel the same. So of course I fall right back into it like nothing happened.. But since then (which was earlier this week) I don't know how to feel about him. My hearts not into it like it should be. I just think I'm over him and I showed him a little pity and gave up the cookies. I even told him I was confused about the entire situation and needed air.. He's still calling and texting the I miss you's and I love you's. They are kinda falling on deaf ears.
